Surpass myself to be better better ..better

my quick temper has been with me for long time,

I always feel I can go straight off with the fair and justice, but not everyone goes with the same right thing that I thought.

it does make my temper unstable and crushed easily.

Due to behavior in different ways, I lose my confidence and my believe and become a person with hot temper.

indeed, sometime I also make self-introspection, but still fall into the confront zone and not to face honestly my fault.

OK ~  I know I relly lose my temper-control in many many unjusticed and ridiculous event, yet I would pick it up.

in a temper, the regret always is happened after you do something out of your mind.

even,something not worth mentioning also makes I upset.

shut  up~ it's nothing worthing to put in your mind over three minutes.

I get it enough.

after I consider over and over, I got few tips.

first, as thing happens, you don't rush to call some "friends" in the same group for complaining.

you should calm down and think there might be caused by some misunderstands or rumers.

Don't believe what you see and listen !!!

anything should be thought over and over time.

then, you make sure what is the next, may be not to do anything.

afterwhile, you might relize it is not worth to mention.

look before you leap, prevent you from the silly things you make in a temper.

or you can get advice from your closest people, like your family.

they might bring you some  thinking in different ways.

Talk is the latest thing that you need to do, if you still feel it necessary.

keeping the temper is my first thing to change my life.

because it's bad life to live with rage.

I think I would have the enough courage to chang myself.

that might also be muture or growing-up.

failure is the best teacher to have us become a better person.

Go for it!!!!